While browsing through one of my old projects, I came across a section from the time I practiced the occult. It's about rules that I had created and followed strictly. And there was a reason for that. Just like before, people now expect magic or any occult method to do their job for them, while they sit back and snap their fingers. Maybe it would be nice, but alas. In order to have what we want, we need to move to get it.
Towards the Future
Now I will bring these rules back again, because they did not apply only to my clients at the time, but also to the circle of people I was in, and to every new person in this circle. Every person needs to have such rules, because people have a habit of overdoing it, of being arrogant without even observing elementary etiquette of communication . And there are those who directly say "I want"! Yes, you want it, but the words Hello, Can you, Can you, How are you.... does anyone use them ?
The other thing is, when someone takes your time, you can't get that time back. And it often happens that the time taken away is family or personal time. Which leads to chaos and arguments, and I personally don't like that! I won't share details, just because I did it and decided to do it , then there's a reason ! And whoever doesn't like it, knows where the exit is, the block button and so on.
Not to mention that the more you let go of the meter, the more they will get on your head. This phenomenon exists in both personal and work relationships. I have said it more than once that until the number passes, no one will stop doing what they are doing, because it is more convenient and does not disturb the comfort. Yes, you may not like being strict (and therefore bad for the rude people around you), but you have to. Otherwise, you don't have a bright future, no matter how bitter it may sound.
Absolutely no rude person will ever even say thank you for helping them, for being online 24/7, for neglecting yourself. The only thing you can achieve by letting go of the meter is the title of fool of the year, or of the month, as you choose.
You decide how you will live, whether you will change something in yourself, or continue as you were, and as far as you can go.
Towards the Future
Now I will bring these rules back again, because they did not apply only to my clients at the time, but also to the circle of people I was in, and to every new person in this circle. Every person needs to have such rules, because people have a habit of overdoing it, of being arrogant without even observing elementary etiquette of communication . And there are those who directly say "I want"! Yes, you want it, but the words Hello, Can you, Can you, How are you.... does anyone use them ?
The other thing is, when someone takes your time, you can't get that time back. And it often happens that the time taken away is family or personal time. Which leads to chaos and arguments, and I personally don't like that! I won't share details, just because I did it and decided to do it , then there's a reason ! And whoever doesn't like it, knows where the exit is, the block button and so on.
Meters (Numbers )
There is no doubt that it sounds rude and arrogant, but if you don't value yourself, you don't value your work and time, do you expect someone else to do it ? And if someone doesn't have basic respect and attitude towards you, then do you need that someone in your life ? And let's be honest, because I have quite a lot of and bitter experience on the subject. How many of you have looked for someone just like that, to ask them how they are, are they okay? How many ??? Right, now we are starting to wonder whether to call that person over there whose name we don't remember but who helped us with something! It's too late !Not to mention that the more you let go of the meter, the more they will get on your head. This phenomenon exists in both personal and work relationships. I have said it more than once that until the number passes, no one will stop doing what they are doing, because it is more convenient and does not disturb the comfort. Yes, you may not like being strict (and therefore bad for the rude people around you), but you have to. Otherwise, you don't have a bright future, no matter how bitter it may sound.
Absolutely no rude person will ever even say thank you for helping them, for being online 24/7, for neglecting yourself. The only thing you can achieve by letting go of the meter is the title of fool of the year, or of the month, as you choose.
You decide how you will live, whether you will change something in yourself, or continue as you were, and as far as you can go.
